Tommy Joe Marks
November 19, 2015
Tommy Joe Marks, 69, passed away Thursday, November 19, 2015 at Kavanagh House Hospice after a valiant battle with cancer. Services will be held Saturday, November 21, 2015 at 10:00 a.m. at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway in West Des Moines with visitation to follow.
Tom was born November 14, 1946 in Lewis County Missouri to Herbert and Bernice Marks. He was the second of five children raised in the Des Moines area.
In 1969 Tom married the love of his life, Linda and they had two children. Tom and Linda built their life together and raised their family on the Southside of Des Moines. Over the years he worked as an Industrial Mechanic and owned his own businesses. Most notably Ilene’s Ice Cream Shop and Laundry Mat located at Park Avenue and SE 22nd. His passions included travel and soccer, but most of all – his family and friends.
In 1999 Tom and Linda moved to Little Rock, AR where they spent fourteen years building friendships and loving memories. They then retired and split their time between Des Moines and Bradeton, FL where Tom could spend six months a year on the beach.
Tom never met a stranger. He was open, honest, and won people over with his straight forward and genuine spirit. He was one of the best story tellers you could ever meet. He loved life and lived it to the fullest.
He is survived by his wife, Linda Marks; his children, Christopher (Jacquelyn) Marks of Des Moines, Suzanne (Todd) Lawler of Kerby, OR; 7 grandchildren, Jacob Neatherly, Sam Rowe, Alexandra Garrett, Kaylee Grote, Christian Garrett, Gracie Marks, and Hayden Marks; and his sisters, Jeanette Ruckle of Little rock, AR, Vickie Tingwald of Chesapeake, VA, and Penny Phelps of Davis City, IA. Tommy was preceded in death by his parents; older brother, Gerald Marks; and nephew, Jerry Phelps.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Haiti Orphanage or the Tingwald Project. Checks can be made to ICM, 1901 Armistead Ave, Hampton, VA 23666 (#13HT14153CMA in the memo line). Condolences may be expressed online at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Steve and Mary Kay Gould
11/21/2015
Linda-So many years have past since you babysat me and then I babysat Christopher and Suzanne. I will always remember all of you with great fondness and love. We are so sorry to learn of Tom's passing and know there will be a huge loss in your family and many communities. Bless you all and know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
David and Mary Kay Werning
11/21/2015
Dear Linda, Chris, Suzanne, family members and friends, We are so very sorry. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, David and Mary Kay
David & Mary Kay
11/21/2015
Tom was a remarkable individual, who openly shared his life with everyone he met. Mary Kay and I well remember the evenings at Dennys Restaurant when he shared his beliefs and philosophies of life. Tom was a great mentor, who easily turned strangers into friends. May his love of others and his peaceful spirit comfort Linda, Chris, Suzanne and their families in their time of loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Jerry Simmons
11/21/2015
Lynn... will be thinking of you today. Wish I could have made it... but I should have the URN for Tom when I come up next week!
Larry and Debbie Little
11/20/2015
We are so sorry for your loss. We are praying for you all.
Joyce
11/20/2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you have peace in knowing that Tom is not in pain anymore. Love you.
Ed and Sandy Mote
11/20/2015
Linda our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the kids. He was always a great guy and a friend.
Gary Tingwald
11/20/2015
May God give a special peace for you and your family. So sorry for your loss. Tommy was a good man.
Alyssia Yingst and the Boys
11/20/2015
Our deepest sympathy with prayers for comfort, and peace during this difficult time.
Sharon Plummer
11/20/2015
Dear Linda, Suzanne, Chris and other family and friends, Our deepest sympathy with prayers for comfort, peace, and ease of heartache. In loving concern, Sharon and Roger