Grief Lending Library

An essential part of the Academy, the Kim Peterson Memorial Grief Lending Library houses an extensive collection of books and resources for all ages, available for check out.

Located at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway (3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines), the library is open Monday through Friday from 8:00am to 4:00pm.

Use the below categories to assist with your search.

  • Alzheimer's Disease
  • Anticipatory Grief
  • Children and Terminal Illness
  • Children's Books
  • Death of a Child
  • Death of a Partner
  • Death of a Pet
  • General Adult Grief
  • Helping Teens and Children
  • Professionals
  • Spanish Language
  • Sudden Death
  • Teen Books

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Title Author Description Category Topics Location
Six Simple Weeks: A caring manual for support group leaders Cole, Eloise & Johnson, Joy (Centering Corporation, 2001)

This model is designed for a six-week time period.  In other words, the group meets once a week for six weeks.  When groups get stretched out over longer periods of time, participation is often interrupted.  Many people can plan six weeks into their schedules, but beyond that, it may get complicated.  It also means people are not committing to a series of meetings which may never end.   Six Simple Weeks gives you everything you need to know to start a support group.  It includes all the information necessary and a week by week model to get you started.

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Sleeping Beauty: memorial photography in America Burns, Stanley B., M.D. (Twelvetrees Press, 1990)

These photographs were a common aspect of American culture, a part of the mourning and memorialization process.

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Someday We’ll Play In Heaven Strannigan, Shawn Alyne (Standard Publishing, 1995)

Ages 3-7. A story about grieving with activity pages and suggestions for parents.

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Someone Came Before You Schwiebert, Pat (Grief Watch, 2007)

Book for the child who comes after the one who died. Explains the parents’ desire for a child and the sadness that comes over them when that baby dies. Then shares how the parents get to the point of wanting another child to come into their lives.

  • Death of a Sibling
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Someone I Love Died Tangvald, Christine Harder (Chariot Books, 1988)

For children ages 4 and up. A very personal way to help your child deal with the death of a friend or relative. Includes practical suggestions for parents.

  • Helping Children
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Someone I Love Died By Suicide: a story for child survivors and those who care for them Cammarata, Doreen (Grief Guidance, Inc., 2001)

Designed for adult caregivers to read to surviving youngsters following a suicidal death. 'Wondering if you could have done something to prevent this suicide is normal. Nothing you said or did would have changed what happened.'

  • Suicide
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Someone I Love Died from a Drug Overdose Ray, Melody (Centering Corporation, 2018)

Accidental substance overdoses continue to rise across our country, leaving families at a loss as to how to tell and assist the children that are grieving. This story is an excellent tool for parents and caregivers. Includes a workbook, definitions, some facts and a note to the adult reading the story.

  • Overdose
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Someone You Love is Dying Shepard M.D., Martin (Harmony Books, 1975)

Offers specific details involved in preparing for death, ways of minimizing fear and grief and provides a forum in which people share their first-hand experiences with death.

  • Historical
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Something Very Sad Happened: A Toddler's Guide to Understanding Death Zucker, Bonnie (Magination Press, 2016)

Something Very Sad Happened is intended to be read to two- and three-year-old children to help them understand death and process the loss of a loved one. Written at a developmental level that is appropriate for two- and three-year-olds, the story explains death; lets children know that it is okay to feel sad; and reassures children that they can still love the person who died, and the person who died will always love them.

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Sometimes I Cry in the Shower Kelly, R. Gleen (R. Kelly Glenn, 2015)

“As a grieving father, R. Glenn Kelly exposes the inner thoughts of a man who has lost the most precious of gifts; his child. Written with the powerful and honest emotion that only someone who has walked in his shoes can truly understand, R. Glenn provides encouragement, insight, and hope to men who are “in the club no one wants to belong to.

  • Men and grief
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Sound Of Solitude, The McKuen, Rod (Harper and Row, Publishers, Inc., 1983)

The Sound of Solitude is the most moving, private, and essential collection of verse Rod McKuen has yet been willing to share with his millions of readers. Written in diary form this book details the slow, secret search for love, the joy of finding someone, and the nearly indefinable emptiness left behind when love goes.

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Standing Beside You: a book for bereaved parents Maurer, Linda (Johnson Printing, 1996)

The author uses her personal experience of her daughter's death to help other parents deal with their grief in the days, weeks, months and years after losing a child.

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Step By Step Out Of Grief Mattern, Ivan G. (Droke House, 1973)

Written for the bereaved person following the funeral. The book will not eliminate grief, but…can assist in adjusting to a new way of life.

  • Historical
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Stepparenting the Grieving Child: Cultivating Past and Present Connections with Children Who Have Lost a Parent Fromme, Diane Ingram (Merry Dissonance Press, 2017)

In Stepparenting the Grieving Child, Diane Ingram Fromme shares the assumptions and presumptions, steps and missteps that occurred within her own stepfamily. Diane faced the key challenges any new stepparent to grieving children experiences, including helplessness to know how and when to offer comfort, awkwardness to identify the times and ways to memorialize the lost parent, and outsider blues--not only feeling uncomfortable in her own home but also in her own skin.

  • Death of a Parent
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Stolen Life, A: A Memoir Dugard, Jaycee (Simon and Shuster, 2011)

In the summer of 1991 I was a normal kid. I did normal things. I had friends and a mother who loved me. I was just like you. Until the day my life was stolen. For eighteen years I was a prisoner. I was an object for someone to use and abuse. For eighteen years I was not allowed to speak my own name. I became a mother and was forced to be a sister. For eighteen years I survived an impossible situation. On August 26, 2009, I took my name back. My name is Jaycee Lee Dugard. I don’t think of myself as a victim. I survived. A Stolen Life is my story – in my own words, in my own way, exactly as I remember it.

  • Abduction
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Story for Hippo, A: a book about loss Puttock, Simon and Alison Bartlett (scholastic Press, 2001)

When his best friend Hippo, who is the oldest and sagest animal in the jungle, dies, Monkey is devastated and wonders what he will do without his friend who always told him stories and laughed at his jokes, in a touching book that shows young readers how to cope with loss.

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Straight Talk About Death For Teenagers: how to cope with losing someone you love Grollman, Earl A. (Beacon Press, 1993)

Simple, direct, “straight from the heart” information about what a teenager can expect from the grieving process.

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Sudden Loss Survival Guide, The Hanson, Chelsea (Mango Publishing Group, 2020)

After the sudden loss of her mother, Chelsea Hanson, a nationally-recognized grief educator and founder of With Sympathy Gifts and Keepsakes, didn’t know where to turn for help, what to do next, or how to put the pieces of her life back together. Hanson’s The Sudden Loss Survival Guide gathers everything that she learned during her own recovery process and provides an indispensable road map to aid those who’ve experienced a life-changing loss.

  • Death of a Mother
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Suicide After Sixty: the final alternative Miller, Marv, Ph.D. (Springer Publishing Company, 1979)

An introduction to the problem and prevention of geriatric suicide focuses on the elderly's sometimes suicidal reaction to severe physical illness, and pathological personal relationships.

  • Suicide / Historical
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Suicide And Grief Stone, Howard W. (Fortress Press, 1972)

… promises to give those in the counseling field a fuller understanding of their work with suicide survivors.

  • Suicide / Historical
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Suicide Survivors Club: Aidan Phillips, Laurie (SSC Publishing, 2016)

This book in a five-book set is Aidan’s story after the suicide death of his father Don, in 2002. Their reflections are captured in their own words and through poignant art by artist/storyteller Laurie Phillips.

  • Suicide
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Suicide Survivors Club: Becky Phillips, Laurie (SSC Publishing, 2016)

This book in a five-book set is Becky’s story after the suicide death of her father Don, in 2002. Their reflections are captured in their own words and through poignant art by artist/storyteller Laurie Phillips.

  • Suicide
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Suicide Survivors Club: Pattie Phillips, Laurie (SSC Publishing, 2016)

This book in a five-book set is Pattie’s story after the suicide death of her husband Don, in 2002. Their reflections are captured in their own words and through poignant art by artist/storyteller Laurie Phillips.

  • Suicide
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Suicide Survivors Club: Will Phillips, Laurie (SSC Publishing, 2016)

This book in a five-book set is Will’s story after the suicide death of his father Don, in 2002. Their reflections are captured in their own words and through poignant art by artist/storyteller Laurie Phillips.

  • Suicide
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Suicide Survivors: a guide for those left behind Wrobleski, Adina (A. Wrobleski, 1994)

A guide for those who have lost someone to suicide. Chapters cover dealing with other people, why suicide grief is different, emotions that come with suicide grief, relationships with others, and recovery.

  • Suicide
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Suicide, Why? Wrobleski, Adina (Afterwords, 1989)

85 questions and answers about suicide. Includes biographical references.

  • Suicide
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Sunflower Promise Hemery, Kathleen Maresh (Centering Corporation, 2005)

Ages 8-12. A chapter book that tells the story of Willow who loses his best friend and how he deals with the loss.

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Sunflowers and Rainbows for Tia: saying goodbye to Daddy Alexander-Greene, Alesia (Centering Corporation, 1999)

This story is about a child whose father dies at home. It follows the family from the night of the father's death through the days following the funeral. The feelings of the child and the events surrounding her father's death are realistically portrayed and caringly addressed. The illustrations are bright and colorful and the text is rich and descriptive. This is an excellent resource for families who are experiencing, or will soon experience, the death of a family member.'

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Supporting Children And Teens Through Grief And Loss: a guide for parents Center for Grieving Children, The (1999)

A reader friendly guide to helping children. Includes: supporting grieving children and teens, signs of grief in children and teens, what you can do, teachable moments, and taking care of yourself. Information that will help parents and their grieving children.

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Supporting Children And Teens Through Grief And Loss: a guide for schools Center for Grieving Children, The (1999)

A reader friendly guide to helping children. Includes: supporting grieving children and teens, signs of grief in children and teens, what you can do, teachable moments, and taking care of yourself. Information that will help schools when a death in the classroom occurs.

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Surviving A Sibling: discovering life after loss Mastley, Scott (2001)

Includes personal experiences with sibling grief, survey results from bereaved parents and bereaved siblings, how to bridge the communication gap between parents and children, and dealing with unanswered questions.

  • Death of a Sibling
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Surviving Grief…And Learning To Live Again Sanders, Catherine M., Ph.D. (John Wiley & Sons, Inc., 1992)

Offers the grieving person the support and understanding needed to get through the difficult journey of grief. Written by Dr. Catherine Sanders, a therapist and researcher specializing in bereavement issues and one who has lived through the loss of close family members. Helps the griever to see that what they are feelings is part of a natural process of readjustment and renewal.

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Surviving Infertility Salzer, Linda (Harper Perennial, 1991)

Offers individuals and couples a comprehensive guide for coping with the many intense feelings – anger, depression, fear, envy – that often emerge from the crisis of infertility.

  • Infertility
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Surviving Sibling Loss: The Invisible Thread that Connects Us Through Life and Death Diraimondo, Dawn (Outskirts Press, Inc., 2021)

Helps people grieving the loss of a sibling, as well as therapists and friends and family who are supporting. This book mixes Dr. Diraimondo's personal and professional experiences with bereavement, as well as perspectives of other individuals who have faced a sibling loss.

  • Sibling Loss
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Surviving The Death Of A Child Munday, John (Westminister John Knox Press, 1995)

A story of faith and love told so that others may find comfort and understanding when faced with the most painful of all losses: the death of one's child.

  • Religious
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Surviving the Death of a Sibling: living through grief when an adult brother or sister dies Wray, T.J. (Three Rivers Press, 2003)

Helps adults who have lost a brother or sister to realize that they are not alone in their struggle. It teaches them to understand the unique stages of their grieving process, offering practical and prescriptive advice for dealing with each stage.

  • Death of a Sibling
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Surviving The Folded Flag: parents of war share stories of coping, courage, and faith Tainsh, Deborah H. (Elva Resa Publishing, 2006)

This collection of more than twenty-five stories from Gold Star parents celebrates the lives of their sons who died in service and offers hope and advice for other families facing such a loss. Bonus essays from a casualty assistance officer and a former soldier give deeper insight into how wartime death affects comrades.

  • Military
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Survivors Of Suicide Cain, Albert C. (Charles C. Thomas, 1972)

The papers included in this book speak of and for the survivors of suicide, of their torment and need for psychological assistance.

  • Suicide
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Swallowed by a snake: The gift of maculine side of healing Golden, Thomas R. (GH Publishing, 2000)

A book for both men and women about the masculine side of healing from loss. Swallowed by a Snake is meant to be a map and a guide through the experience of loss. It will help you move through the pain of loss and into a place of healing and transformation.

  • Men and grief
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Swimming With Maya: a mother’s story Vincent, Eleanor (Capital Books, 2004)

A story about the unique and complicated relationship between mothers and daughters, and celebrates how that relationship continues to exist beyond the grave. Maya became an organ donor at the time of her death. The book chronicles a remarkable friendship between a grieving mother and the man who is alive because her daughter's heart beats in his chest.

  • Organ Donors
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Talk Before Sleep Berg, Elizabeth (Dell Publishing, 1994)

This is the story of Ruth. Of Ann. And of all of us who wonder what we’d say if we knew we didn’t have forever. The author writes about her experience losing a friend to breast cancer in a fictional way.

  • Breast Cancer
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Talking About Death and Bereavement in School: how to help children age 4 to 11 to feel supported and understood Chadwick, Ann (Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2012)

This short, easy to read book offers simple but important advice and guidance for school teachers and staff on what to do when a child is grieving. It includes advice on explaining death to children, insights into how children may be feeling and how they may react, and ways in which they can be supported. The book also covers how bereavement can affect a child and how it can affect the whole school in the case of a death of a pupil or staff member.

  • School Resources
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Talking About Divorce and Separation Grollman, Earl A. (Centering Corporation, 2005)

Explaining divorce and separation to children is difficult. This book gives helpful advice on how to talk about you and your spouse walking separate paths. Includes a storybook section for children and adults to read together. Following is a section for parents to use to open up communication between parent and child.

  • Divorce
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Talking With Children About Loss: words, strategies, and wisdom to help children cope with death, divorce, and other difficult times Trozzi, Maria (Perigee, 1999)

Through stories and thoughtful analysis, Maria explains how to handle the difficult job of talking with children and adolescents about loss. Includes information about divorce, Death of a Pet, death of a family member, the disabling of a sibling and more.

  • All Losses
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Taste Of Blackberries, A Smith, Doris Buchanan (Crowell, 1973)

Ages 8-12. A sensitive portrayal of a young boy’s attempt to understand and accept his best friend’s sudden death.

  • Death of a friend / Historical
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Tear Soup Schwiebert, Pat and Chuck DeKlyen (Grief Watch, 1999)

Tear Soup gives you a glimpse into Grandy’s life as she blends different ingredients into her own grief process. Her tear soup will help to bring her comfort and ultimately help to fill the void in her life that was created by her loss. Following Grandy’s story you will find ‘cooking tips’ to use in dealing with grief: if you are the cook; if your friend is the cook; if a child is the cook; if you are a male chef; if there are two of you cooking.

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Techniques of Grief Therapy: creative practices for counseling the bereaved Neimeyer, Robert A. (Routledge, 2012)

Techniques of Grief Therapy is an indispensable guidebook to the most inventive and inspirational interventions in grief and bereavement counseling and therapy. Individually, each technique emphasizes creativity and practicality.

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Teen Grief Relief: parenting with understanding, support and guidance Horsley, Heidi and Gloria, Ph.D. (Rainbow Books, Inc., 2007)

Provides both parents and teens with the help they need. Shared are teen stories, feelings, techniques, references and resources for use in not only surviving but thriving after the painful loss of a family member or close friend.

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Teen Suicide: a book for friends, family and classmates Kolehmainen, Janet (Lerner Publications Company, 1986)

The facts about suicide, warning signs to watch for, and when and where to go for help.

  • Suicide / Helping Teens
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Teenagers Talk About Grief Kolf, June Cerza (Baker Book House, 1990)

Using true-life examples and a personal style, this book offers solid, compassionate help to grieving teenagers. The special problems associated with suicide are also discussed.

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Teens, Loss, and Grief: The Ultimate teen guide Myers, Edward (Scarcrow press 2004)

A self-help guide for teenagers who are struggling with bereavement and the emotional difficulties it presents. This book provides an overview of grief as a painful but normal process, offering insights from bereavement experts as well as practical suggestions for coping with loss, including accounts from teens. This book closes a gap in the available literature on grief and bereavement that has tended to focus on adults and younger children. It provides a warm, accessible resource that will reassure teen readers about the normality of grief, encourages their understanding of what happens during the grief process, and provides an indispensable resource guide.

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Tell Me, Papa: a family book for children's questions about death and funerals Johnson, Joy and Marv (Highly Specialized Promotions, 1978)

"Takes the great unknown of death and tells it as it is. Feelings hurt but feelings shared are feelings diminished."

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Tenth Good Thing about Barney, The Viorst, Judith (Athenmeum, 1984)

Ages 3-19. In an attempt to overcome his grief, a boy tries to think of the ten best things about his dead cat.

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Terrible Thing Happened, A Holmes, Margaret M.; afterward by Sasha J. Mudlaff (Magination Press, 2000)

Ages 4-7. For children who have witnessed any kind of violent or traumatic episode. An afterward for parents and other caregivers offers extensive suggestions for helping traumatized children, including a list of other sources that focus on specific events.

  • Witness Traumatic Event
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Thank You For Coming to Say Goodbye Roberts, Janice & Joy Johnson (Centering Corporation, 1994)

Children of all ages. Ways children can be told, introduced to funerals, say goodbye and express themselves. Stories of children and funerals are sprinkled throughout. Actual hands-on how-to's for orienting children to the funeral home and sections for parents, funeral directors, teachers and clergy.

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The ABC's of Grief: Emotions and Feelings Correnti, Jessica (Kids Grief Support, 2025)

Grief is more than sadness. This children's book helps kids to make sense of their big emotions and express them during times of loss and change.

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The Great Big Sad Fox, Christina

It is a discipleship tool for parents and caregivers in helping children learn that people grieve in many different ways, how to talk about grief, ways to honor and remember a loved one, and how Jesus knows and understands their tears.

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The Grieving Brain O'Connor, Mary-Francis

A fascinating new window into what happens in our brain when we grieve, providing a new paradigm for understanding, love, loss, and learning.

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The Invisible Leash Karst, Patrice

Here is the very best news ever. When our pets aren't with us anymore, and Invisible Leash connects our hearts to each other. FOREVER.

  • Pet Loss
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The Modern Loss Handbook: An Interactive Guide to Moving Through Grief and Building Your Resilience Soffer, Rebecca (Hachette Book Group, 2022)

A book offering interactive pages and practical, witty advice for those who are confronting a future without their person. Ideas for honoring their memory, dealing with tough days, as well as managing other relationships.

  • Interactive
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The Wild Edge of Sorrow Weller, Francis

In this lyrical handbook for mastering the art of grieving, noted psychotherapist Francis Weller reveals the new vitality we encounter when we welcome, rather than fear, the pain of loss

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There Is A Rainbow Behind Every Dark Cloud Celestial Arts (Celestial Arts, 1978)

Eleven children share their experiences with terminal illness, especially the ways they helped each other cope with the prospects of their own death.

  • Terminally Ill Children / Historical
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There Was a Baby… Camerona, Laura (Words Worth Repeating, 2021)

This book was created about fetal loss to help families have conversations with their children.

  • Miscarriage
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They said it Wouldn't Hurt (but it really did) and I'm Still Fighting Nelson, Abby (Abby Nelson, 2005)

This story is written in love to all who have faced a challenge in life. Perhaps you have been afraid, or have had a bad day at school. Maybe you have lost a best friend or a loved one. You may be sick or hurt. This is a story for anyone who has ever endured pain or gone through struggles. It is a story about overcoming obstacles of life, especially illness. It offers hope; just as author Abby has her whole life while battling congenital heart defects, asthma and pulmonary hypertension. Abby’s Make A Wish was to publish a book and this is the result of that wish.

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Thin Ice Buthman, David (Centering Corporation 1990)

How parents can survive when more than one child dies. The author speaks of his experiences of going back to work, marriage and Jessica, the surviving big sister who was at home.

  • Death of children
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Thirty-Six (36) Hour Day, The: A family guide to caring for people who have Alzheimer's Disease, related dementias, and memory loss Macy, Nancy L. and Rabins, Peter V. (The John Hopkins University Press, 2011)

An essential resource for families who love and care for people with Alzheimer disease. Whether a person has Alzheimer disease or another form of dementia, he or she will face a host of problems. The 36-Hour Day will help family members and caregivers address these challenges and simultaneously cope with their own emotions and needs.

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This Little While: for parents experiencing the death of a very small infant Johnson, Joy & Dr. S.M. (Centering Corporation, 2000)

For parents who have experienced the death of a stillborn baby or a very young infant. Gives suggestions on things a parent should consider for remembrances.

  • Stillbirth / Early Infant Death
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This Thing Called Grief: new understanding of loss Ellis, Thomas M. (Syren Book Co., 2006)

This book shows that although grief and pain may be changing you now, they have the potential to transform your life in a healing way. Ellis uses many real-life narratives of loss from his therapy practice to help illustrate various ways of grieving, and shows how you can learn from the experience of loss and make your way towards a place of healing transitions and a renewed sense of life.

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Three Out Of Four Wives Lewis, Alfred Allan (Macmillan Publishing Co., Inc., 1975)

An angry expose - the result of hundreds of interviews and extensive research into the plight of The American widow.

  • Historical
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Thumpy's Story: a story of love and grief shared by Thumpy, the Bunny Dodge, Nancy C. (Prairie Lark Press, 1986)

"In a warm and sensitive way it (the book) will help children deal with the loss of a loved one."

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Time for Everything, A: for kids who are missing someone they love Anderson, Lisa Beth (International Bible Society, 2004)

The words for this book were written long ago as a poem. The poem is now part of the Bible, called Ecclesiastes. It tells about the cycle of life. In the Bible, God says that he will change the pattern of good and bad that we see all around us. God can turn our sadness into dancing. He wants to give us a life that last forever, a life with him on a healed earth with no sickness, no crying and no death-ever!

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Time to Grieve, A Fitzpatrick, Carol (Barbour and Company, 1995)

Noted Christian author Carol Fitzpatrick describes not only the stages of grief but shares poignant examples from her own life and from the Bible on how to deal with this devastating emotion.

  • Religious
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Time To Grieve, A: meditations for healing after the death of a loved one Staudacher, Carol (HarperSanFrancisco, 1994)

This book accompanies the reader through the deep and prolonged grief that follows the death of a loved one. Written to connect with you wherever you are in your grieving process, these meditations are appropriate regardless of when your loved one died.

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Time to Live, A Time to Die, A: important concerns when death draws near Ash, Beatrice M.A. (Augsburg Fortress, 1993)

With warmth and compassion, the author highlights seven concerns that she has found to be important to people who are nearing life’s end.

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Time To Mourn, A Time To Dance: help for the losses in life, A Metzgar, Margaret (Aid Association for Lutherans, 1995)

Explores many types of significant losses which cause grief: death, divorce, unemployment, etc. Coping strategies which help lessen pain and promote healing.

  • All Losses
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Time to Mourn, A: Judaism and the psychology of bereavement Sprio, Jack D. (Bloch Publishing Company, 1967)

Defines the socio-religious aspects concerning the dynamics of the process of mourning as it is revealed in modern psychiatric research, as well as the Jewish theological background relating to the concept of death.

  • Religious - Jewish / Historical
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Timothy Duck Blackburn, Lynn Bennett (Centering Corporation, 1987)

Ages 4-9. Tender story of a duck (Timothy) who loves a boy. Timothy watches John get sick and die; learns about grief and goodbyes.

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To Bloom Again Van Weelden, Sheryl

Sheryl Van Weelden speaks to those who are on their grief journey, or those supporting people on their grief journey. Within the pages of this book, she invites them to walk down that path with her.

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To Die with Style McCoy, Marjorie Casbier (Abingdon Press, 1974)

Deals with the need to be aware of our natural fear of death, our anxiety, our will to live and the foretastes of death in the midst of life.

  • Historical
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Tracks of a Fellow Struggler: living and growing through grief Claypool, John (Insight Press, 1995)

This book is the story of Claypool's own journey through the darkness, written through four sermons. The first was delivered just eleven days after his eight year old daughter's diagnosis of leukemia, the second after her first major relapse nine months later, and the third weeks after her death. The final sermon - reflection on the process of grieving - was preached three years later.

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Trauma And Recovery Herman, Judith, M.D. (Basic Books, 1997)

“Bridging the worlds of war veterans, prisoners of war, battered women and incest victims, Herman presents a compelling analysis of trauma and the process of healing.”

  • Trauma
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Travel Guide to Heaven, A DeStefano, Anthony (Doubleday, 2003)

Combining the clarity and logic of C. S. Lewis with a terrific sense of fun and adventure, DeStefano creates a brilliant, reassuring portrait of heaven, a place that has intrigued and puzzled humankind throughout history. 

  • Relgious
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Turned Upside Down: A flip book - turning upside down right side up… by connecting with the other side Tache, Teana (New Leaf Distributing Company, 2013)

It has been written as a conversation between a child and their loved one, designed as a memory keepsake and amazingly illustrated to encourage light, love and forever memories. Turned Upside Down opens conversations with children and adults, allowing them to process, understand and embrace the loss of their very special someone. Share the gift of connecting with the other side. 

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Twentieth Century Faith: hope And survival Mead, Margaret (Harper and Row, Publishers, 1972)

Religious Perspectives represents a quest for the rediscovery of man. It constitutes an effort to define man's search for the essence of being in order that he may have a knowledge of goals. It is an endeavor to show that there is no possibility of achieving an understanding of man's total nature on the basis of phenomena known by the analytical method alone.

  • Religious / Historical
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Understanding and Supporting Bereaved Children McNiel, Andy & Gabbay, Pamela (Springer Publishing Company, 2018)

Organized overview of practical interventions that are innovative for human service professionals that are helping bereaved children. Helps in understanding how grief after a death can impact children and all aspects of their lives.

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Understanding Grief: it’s roots, dynamics, and treatment Jackson, Edgar N. (Abingdon Press, 1957)

Readers will find a perceptive history of man's reaction to death and practical methods of counseling which can restore the grief-stricken to a useful life.

  • Historical
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Understanding Loneliness Jackson, Edgar N. (SCM Press Ltd., 1980)

Dr. Jackson has written in a way which will being real help, insight and improvement even to situations which have seemed hopeless.

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Understanding Your Grief after a Drug-Overdose Death Wolfelt, Alan D. (Companion Press, 2020)

Loss is always hard, but when someone you love dies of an accidental drug overdose, the grief that follows can be especially painful and challenging.In this compassionate guide, Dr. Alan Wolfelt shares the most important lessons he has learned from loved ones who've picked up the pieces in the aftermath of a drug overdose.

  • Overdose
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Understanding Your Grief Support Group Guide: Starting and Leading a Bereavement Support Group Wolfelt, Alan D., Ph.D. (Companion Books, 2003)

A support group guide that goes along with the "Understanding your Grief: ten essential touchstones for finding hope and healing your heart" book.

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Understanding Your Grief: ten essential touchstones for finding hope and healing your heart Wolfelt, Alan D., Ph.D. (Companion Books, 2003, second ed., 2021 )

Explains the important difference between grief and mourning and explores the mourner's need to acknowledge the death and embrace the pain of the loss. This important book also explores the many factors that make each person's grief unique and the myriad of normal thoughts and feelings the mourner might have. Questions of spirituality and religion are addressed.

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Unspoken Grief: coping with childhood sibling loss Rosen, Helen (Lexington Books, 1986)

An overview of the basic issues; children's comprehension of death, the phenomenon of childhood bereavement, and parental loss.

  • Death of a Sibling
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Until Tomorrow Comes Kelly, Orville E. (Everett House, 1979)

Contains all that Mr. Kelly has learned about cancer and how to live with it. The author is founder and president of the national organization "Make Today Count."

  • Cancer / Historical
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Using Grief To Grow: A primer Hartnett, Johnette (Good Mourning, South Burlington, VT. 1993)

Answers to common questions of those trying to support bereaved friends. Descriptions of the most common symptoms and stages based on the most current research on grief.

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Visions, Trips, and Crowded Rooms: Who and What You See Before You Die Kessler, David (Hay House Publishers, 2010)

In the tapestry of life and death, we may begin to see connections to the past that we missed in life. While death may look like a loss to the living, the last hours of a dying person may be filled with fullness rather than emptiness. In this fascinating book, Kessler brings us stunning stories from the bedsides of the dying that will educate, enlighten, and comfort us all.

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Voices of Death Shneidman, Edwin (Harper and Row, Publishers, 1980)

Will help find guidelines both to increase the psychological comfort of our own dying and to enhance our understanding of loved ones who may be dying.

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Voices of Strength: Sons and Daughters of Suicide Speak Out Fox, Judy Zionts and Mia Roldan (New Horizon Press, 2009)

Voices of Strength helps survivors make sense of life's least understandable act and shows them how to heal by focusing on comfort, memories, recovery, and hopes for a productive future.

  • Suicide
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Waiting With Gabriel Kuebelbeck, Amy (Loyola Press, 2003)

For parents who have lost an infant child. The author shares the story of the brief life of her son who is born with a rare heart defect. Stresses the importance of recognizing grace and beauty in the here and now.

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Walking Through the Fire Lee, Laurel (Bantam Books, 1978)

At thirty, Laurel Lee discovered she had Hodgkin’s disease – an agonizing illness that could take her life and her baby’s as well. Refusing to give up, she learned to overcome the pain with humor and faith, and began to write this remarkable journal of her feelings and experience.

  • Hodgkin's Disease / Historical
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Walking with God through Pain and Suffering Keller, Timothy (Penguin Group, 2013)

The question of why God would allow pain and suffering has vexed believers and nonbelievers forever. Keller takes on this enduring issue and shows that there is meaning and reason behind pain and suffering, making a case that this essential part of the human experience can truly be overcome only by understanding our relationship with God.

  • Religious
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Walking With Grief: a healing journey Geertz, Nanette (Healthsigns Center, Inc., 2004)

This prose poem shows how the author dealt with her teenage daughter’s unexpected death. A collaboration of art and poetry.

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