Adrian Paul Carter, Sr.
July 09, 1960 — January 30, 2026
Adrian Carter, age 65, passed away on Friday, January 30, 2026.
Adrian was born on July 9, 1960, in Des Moines, Iowa, to Frederick and Shirley (Brown) Carter.
Adrian enjoyed life’s simple pleasures. He loved margaritas, listening to the blues, cheering on the Buffalo Bills, spending time with his family, and watching western movies. A creative and hands-on person, he had a natural talent for fixing things and enjoyed working with his hands.
Adrian is survived by his loving wife, Melissa Carter; his children, Fred (Anna) Carter, Adrian (Megan) Carter, Jr., Jeff (Madison) Carter, and Chance Carter; his step-children, Skiler VanHouang, Sean VanHouang, Seth VanHouang, Brad Jenkins, and Janie Jenkins; his grandchildren, Alexa, Emma, Zoey, Kenneth, Jordan, Ethan, Parker, Dakota, Madison, Karina, Emera, Christopher, Trevor, and Eli; his brother, Bill (Jennie) Armstrong; his sister, Carolyn Byrkett; and many nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents; his brother, Jeff Carter; and his sister, Kathy Sutton.
A visitation will be held on Sunday, February 8, 2026, from 10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines.
A Celebration of Life will be held in the spring, with details to be announced at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to the family for future donations in loving memory of Adrian.
Condolences may be expressed online at
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Jeff Carter
02/07/2026
There won’t be a day that goes by that I won’t miss you dad. I’ll never forget the moments we shared together. It’s hard to imagine life moving forward without you but I know you’ll be with us. You were always good to me and I couldn’t have asked for much more than that. I’ll always be thankful for you. I’m so happy you got to know Maddie and see us get engaged! I remember the first time she met you she said “ I love your dad he’s awesome!!” I love you and am going to miss you man! Go Bills!
Judy Thompson(Quick)
02/06/2026
Give Jeff a big hug for me. My condolences to Adrian's family.
Megan
02/06/2026
Until the day we meet again. You makin fun of me man!! Love you always and forever.
Carolyn Byrkett
02/04/2026
My sweet brother from the cradle to the grave I've loved you ,ill miss you till I see you again love you forever sis
Alice (Renie)
02/04/2026
Uncle Tinky, (I know you just loved that nickname) its does not seem possible you are gone! I will always remember our fun times at Grandma and Grandpas on Grand Avenue where you would help me climb the Mulberry Bush/Tree and eat them! Gram would yell at you because we had purple hands and faces! Or the times you and Uncle Jeff would make us watch the WWE and you would make the frontroom your wrestling ring! I know you are with Gram and the rest of our family so give them all my love and we will see you all again! PS Tell Dad I love him too and hopefully he is singing and playing his guitar while you all sing along to The Flag Decal song by John Prine just like we use too! Love, your Niece
Pamela Cardines
02/04/2026
Adrian you were a good guy Megan loved you so much thanks for treating her like a daughter you’ll be missed very much gods speed to heaven people are waiting for you
Jenny Lovan
02/03/2026
Adrian, I am glad that i had that random conversation with you a few weeks ago. You were a big part of my childhood and I have so many good memories! Jody, I am so sorry!! RiP, A ❤️
Lauren Burgess
02/03/2026
Rest easy, Uncle A. We love you forever. Your life on earth was spent working tirelessly to make sure everyone around you felt loved. I hope your eternity in heaven will be spent knowing just how loved you will always be. If there's one thing I know for certain, it is that God called you home because heaven needed a handyman.
P.s. You still owe me that coffee!
Jerry Jenkins
02/03/2026
I always enjoyed my interactions with Adrian. Chatting about various things and joking around. I found him to be a kind and caring person with a great sense of humor. When my wife Linda worked with him he always looked after her well being. When we had an issue with our apartment he was always right on top of things, making sure we were well taken care of. It was obvious it all wasn't just a job to him. He loved what he was doing and really cared about taking care of people and their needs. He was never just "the maintenance guy" or coworker. He was a friend who will be missed and never forgotten.