Brenda Joyce Smith-Myers
October 22, 1960 — April 26, 2026
Brenda Joyce Smith-Myers, age 65, passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, April 26, 2026. Brenda was born on October 22, 1960, in Iowa City, Iowa, to Monford Smith and Violet Beltz.
Brenda had a heart that was truly one of a kind—big, warm, and full of love for everyone around her. She found joy in the simple things, especially being outdoors, soaking in the fresh air, and spending time with friends and family. Whether she was laughing, sharing stories, or just enjoying the moment, she had a way of making life feel lighter and more meaningful. Being a grandmother was one of her greatest blessings, and she cherished every second spent with her grandchildren, creating memories filled with love, laughter, and genuine happiness. She lived her life with kindness and warmth, leaving a lasting impression on everyone lucky enough to know her.
Brenda is survived by her loving daughter, Ellen Smith; her cherished grandchildren, Hailey (Cael) Lenze, Shyann Smith, Jayden Parker, Jordan Parker, D’Aries Ware, and Jayrell Parker; and her siblings, Richard Smith, Dennis (Betty) Smith, and Beverly (Arnold) Lutheran. She is also survived by her sisters-in-law, Merna Scott and Marilyn Gist; nieces, Sandra Lutheran, Amy (Manuel) Hernandez, and Rebecca Lutheran; and nephews, Scott Smith, Dennis Sanders, and Christopher (Nicole) Lutheran.
She also leaves behind her bonus children, Maria Hall, Jason Trimble, and Heather Trimble; her bonus grandchildren, Zoe Wease, Riley Smith, Michael Hall, and Chansear Garrett; and her bonus sister, Beverly Randell.
Brenda was preceded in death by her parents, Monford and Marilyn Smith, and Violet Beltz; her beloved husband, Marvin Myers; her son-in-law, Mose Parker; and her grandson, James Taylor.
Brenda will be deeply missed but forever remembered for her love, strength, and the beautiful life she shared with those around her.
There will be a service held on Saturday, May 9, 2026, at 1:00 p.m. at Transformation Nazarene Church, 1451 E 25th St, Des Moines, Iowa.
Memorial contributions can be directed to the family in loving memory of Brenda.
Susan Glover
04/30/2026
Ellen and family - I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't know her, but she sounds like an amazing mother, g-ma, and friend and will be missed by so many. Prayers for your family.
Hailey Lenze
04/30/2026
Grandma there’s no words i can say that can explain how much i miss you, thank you for being my best friend and grandma in one can’t thank you enough for everything rest in peace grandma