Douglas "Doug" Rafdal
November 26, 1946 — August 15, 2025
Doug Rafdal, 78, of Urbandale, Iowa, passed away peacefully at his home on Thursday, August 15, 2025.
Doug was born in 1946 in Ames, Iowa, to Elwood and Beulah Rafdal. He grew up in Des Moines and graduated from Lincoln High School in 1964. He later attended the University of Iowa before enlisting in the United States Marine Corps in 1968, where he served with honor and saw combat in Vietnam.
In 1974, Doug married the love of his life, Jeanne Hollen. Together, they shared more than 50 years of marriage, raising their son Eric, who was born in 1976. Doug’s career included both the insurance industry and the radio business, including many years at 1040 WHO Radio in Des Moines, where his outgoing personality found a natural home.
Doug was larger than life. He loved telling stories, sharing laughs, never taking himself too seriously. His loud, unmistakable laugh left a lasting impression on all who knew him. He was the life of the party, a devoted friend, and a beloved coach of youth basketball, where he shared his love of the game with his son, nieces, and nephews. During his working days in the radio business, his friends Bill Rooney and Kelli Conger were especially important to him. Doug was an avid fan of the University of Iowa, never missing an opportunity to root for Hawkeye football and basketball. In recent years, he especially enjoyed following the career of Caitlin Clark, cheering for her with great enthusiasm.
Above all, Doug was a family man who cherished time with his loved ones. He was preceded in death by his parents, Elwood and Beulah, and his sisters, Marla and Deborah. He is survived by his wife, Jeanne; his son, Eric (and his wife Kate) of Florida; his sister, Pamela (and her husband, Jack); his brother, Dave (and his wife Marci); and his sisters-in-law, Maxine Hudson, Joni Hollen and Susan Hollen. He will be deeply missed by countless friends and family who loved him dearly.
The family will greet friends Friday, August 22, 2025 from 12:00 p.m. to 2:00 p.m. with the funeral service to follow at 2:00 p.m. at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 SW 9th Street. Doug will be laid to rest with military honors at the Iowa Veterans Cemetery in Van Meter, Iowa at a later date. For those unable to attend in person, the family invites you to join them virtually through the link in his obituary found on Hamilton’s website.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Jean Stevens Davis
08/21/2025
I'm so sorry the world has lost Doug. He brought the happy wherever he went - selfless and funny and kind. He was a wonderful guy, coming from the most wonderful family. My heart is with all of you as you begin this new normal; I know how much you'll miss him. Keeping you all in prayer.
Love,
Jean
Pat Falbo Schafer
08/21/2025
So sorry to hear this news. Doug was a kind individual and friend. He took good care of the house on Broad Street! Prayers to family. Pat
Carolyn Lenhart
08/20/2025
Hey Cousins,
So sad to hear this news. Doug was always the life of the party, always so happy and jokes for days! Prayers to all of you and we love you all!
Karen (Roach) Waits
08/20/2025
I remember Doug's father was my parents insurance agent. May you rest in peace.
Mary Lou Johnson
08/19/2025
Jen and Rafdal families,
I am so sorry to hear of Doug's passing. As his obituary states, he was "larger than life". He was always so welcoming and kind to me at the family gatherings I attended with Jen and Kevin. Please know I am holding you all in my heart and prayers in the difficult days ahead. I know you will all hold on to each other to get through your grief.
Love and hugs to you all,
Mary Lou Johnson
Bruce Walker
08/19/2025
Doug and I were teammates in basketball for three years. We were, also, social friends during that time. We came to Iowa City together to go through rush as sophomores. We pledged different fraternities and drifted into different circles. I enjoyed seeing and talking with Doug at our 60th high school reunion. I am very sorry to learn about Doug’s passing. Your family has me sincere condolences.
Shirley E Andre
08/19/2025
I'm sorry for the great void this leaves in all who loved him. He was truly one of the best.
Bob Joss
08/19/2025
Doug was a great friend. We shared many episodes and stories in high school. Rip Doug.