Ray Dominick
August 17, 1931 — March 26, 2026
Ray Dominick of Des Moines died at home on March 26, 2026. He was 94. Born in LeMars to Leo and Irene Dominick in 1931, Ray was the 5th of 6 children. After graduating from LeMars High School in 1949, he began a life-long career in the printing industry. He was employed by newspapers, including the Sioux City Journal and the Des Moines Register, before working for Principal Financial Group for 36 years.
Ray met Marlene Struthers in 1958 and they married at The Little Brown Church in the Vale the following year. They spent their honeymoon at the American Bowling Congress in St. Louis. In fact, Ray was one of the best bowlers in Des Moines in the 1950s and 60s. His other passions included genealogy, history, astronomy, and traveling. He loved horse races, was an exceptional handicapper and proudly taught his kids and grandkids how to best predict the outcome of a race. He wrote hundreds of letters to the editor that were published and he kept in bound notebooks. He also wrote hundreds of “Just a thought about…” essays with titles including “inequities in the Civil War draft,” “the privileged are back in control,” and “I’m 77 years old today.”
Ray rode his bicycle until he was 90 years old, logging about 80,000 miles over his life — a distance equivalent to more than three times around Earth.
Ray is survived by his wife Marlene, son Brian (Khristy), daughter Andie (Doug Wolfe), grandchildren Jacob Wolfe (Veronica), Jordan Wolfe, Bailey Wolfe and John Dominick, great granddaughter Phoebe Wolfe, his sister Bev Harmelink and many nieces, nephews, in-laws and friends. Ray was preceded in death by, as he said, “just about everyone.” That included siblings and his daughter Denise.
A loving thank you to Dr. Robert Callahan at Mercy Franklin and Wesley Life Hospice for all the care, services and compassion focused on helping Ray and our family.
Written condolences can be shared with the family via mail or www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com. Any memorial contributions can be directed to Ellipsis (formerly Youth Homes of Mid-America), Wesley Life Hospice or any charity serving people in need. My dad would also request honoring him by tipping restaurant servers generously.
According to Ray’s written wishes, he did not want any services after his death. He did, however, write his own obituary. Here is an excerpt:
“Please don’t mourn my death. Just celebrate the wonders of Nature. I want to leave you with this one thought: be nice to each other. Enjoy the rest of your journey through life. And now and then think about the wonderful enigma we are all a part of. Now I’ll say goodbye until our spirits get together in another dimension.”
Bob Campbell
04/02/2026
I was saddened to learn this morning of Ray's passing. I worked with him at The Bankers Life (Principal) Printing & Supply department in the early '70s. Though I did not know him well, I came to appreciate his way with words and his willingness to share his thoughts and insights in the Register over the years.
May all who mourn his passing be comforted.
Dr. Bob Callahan
04/02/2026
I am very sorry for your loss. I enjoyed getting to know Ray and caring for him for the past several years. His face always lit up when he spoke about his family, and I know that he will be missed by many.
Ed Fallon
04/01/2026
I'm honored to have known Ray for many years, and grateful to the support he and Marlene have shown to important causes. My condolences to Marlene, Andie, and the rest of the family.
Patti Van Thomme
04/01/2026
I worked with Ray at Principal and was always impressed with his natural curiosity, his intellect, dedication, and work ethic. We had such interesting conversations through the years. I learned a lot from him.
May his spirit be in peace in the next dimension!
Brad Nielsen
03/30/2026
Marlene, it was so nice to see you at Wilma's service and here we are again. I always loved running into Ray and talking cycling. It was always easy to catch up where we left off when we talked. You and your family were such good neighbors and am so glad we got to cross paths.
Brad
Holly Johnson
03/28/2026
Dear Marlene,
You have always been a quiet strength—steady, loving, and full of grace. I have always felt that both you and Ray were like a second set of parents to me, and that is something I will forever carry with gratitude in my heart.
I know how deeply you will miss him. A love like yours doesn’t simply fade—it stays with you, in every memory, every moment, every quiet space. But I also believe, as you do, that Ray is now free from pain, living in a place we cannot yet see, as the very best version of himself.
And knowing Ray, I truly believe he hasn’t gone far. He will still be cheering you on, just in a different way. If we pay close attention, we’ll see the signs—the little moments, the feelings, the reminders—that he is still with us, still loving you, still being your greatest cheerleader.
You have given so much love, and you continue to be such a light to those around you. I hope you can feel surrounded by that same love now.
With all my love
Holly
Holly Johnson
03/28/2026
My memory of Ray centers around the beautiful and joyful relationship he shared with my best friend, his daughter Andie. He would join us on bike rides, where Andie always seemed to have more energy and a faster pace than the rest of us. As we neared our destination, Andie would be far ahead—as usual—and one of us would look at the other and say, “Let’s just get this measly ride over with,” and we’d laugh, knowing it had completely kicked our butts compared to Andie. Those are memories that will always make me smile.
Ray was a man of few words, but when he spoke, it was always with wisdom and kindness. He carried a warm, welcoming smile that made you feel at ease, and he had a quiet strength about him that spoke volumes. He was the kind of person who would help anyone in need without hesitation, never seeking recognition—just doing what was right.
He was a good man with strong moral character, humble in spirit, and genuine in heart. The kind of man you don’t forget.
I feel grateful to have known him and to have witnessed the love he shared with his family. My heart is with Andie and all who loved him. He will be remembered with deep respect, warmth, and affection.