Vilay Lovan
May 07, 1977 — February 19, 2026
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Service Details
Mr. Vilay Lovan passed away on Thursday, February 19, 2026. He was born on May 7, 1977, in Vientiane, Laos, arrived in the United States in 1982 with his parents and brother.
Vilay was employed by Bankers Trust for 13 years.
He is survived by his grandfather, Pheng Lovan; parents, Ting and Phimphone Lovan; brother and sister-in-law, Kal and Outhay Lovan; nephews, Lincoln, Owen, and Theo; niece, Bella Lovan; and a host of aunts, uncles, cousins and extended family members.
Visitation will be held from 5:00- 7:00 p.m., Monday, February 23rd, 2026, at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens. Funeral service will be held Tuesday, February 24th at 12:00 p.m., at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens. 121 NW 60th Ave, Des Moines, Iowa 50313.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the family in memory of Vilay.
Condolences may be expressed at: www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Casey Riker
02/25/2026
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Vilay. I have such great memories of him and I bonding over our shared love of Britney Spears ♥︎ He was a wonderful human.
Darus&Gregersen Family
02/24/2026
With heavy hearts, Ai Me will forever be missed, always remembered, and deeply loved.
He never missed a chance to celebrate — whether it was a holiday, a birthday, a family cookout, a smoked turkey leg (can't forget a BigMac), a NE Patriots touchdown, or simply the joy of everyone being together. He always believed life was meant to be enjoyed.
We are thankful that Ai Me found peace with a fishing pole in his hands and joy around a pool table, where friendly competition often turned into stories, playful banter, and unforgettable laughter. But more than his hobbies, it was the goofiness in his heart and the love he carried for others that truly defined him.
Though our hearts ache in his absence, we are grateful for every memory, every celebration, every fishing trip, and every shared joke.
Becky Moomey
02/24/2026
I worked at the bank with Vilay and fondly remember our interactions whether in the mailroom, Downtown branch or South branch. He was always so friendly and kind to me. Vilay will be missed.
Corey Jensen
02/24/2026
RIP my friend you will be missed,
Loved playing pool with or against you. Will always cherish the nickname you gave me Big Country!
Brian, Courtney, Jordan, and Skyler
02/23/2026
I can't even begin to express my condolences for your loss. There are no words that can help. Just knowing what his loss means to his friends, I can't imagine the deep hole it leaves in the hearts of his family. The world has truly lost a great man. We need more people like Vilay. Someone raised one heck of an individual with this one. We met Vilay through the Southside pool league in Des Moines and instantly fell in love with him. His smile and attitude was so infectious. Our kids met him through APA and they loved him too. That is the kind of man he was. Always had a smile on his face, ALWAYS. Always had a hug for everyone. Always tried to put a smile on everyone else's face, loved to have a good time, and just hang out. Seemed like he loved everybody and make friends wherever he was. In the years we've known him I've never heard anyone say anything bad about Vilay. He is already greatly missed. I was in Waterloo when I heard the horrible news of his passing. Later that night Brittany was blaring through the sound system. I choose to believe that was Vilay letting me know he had made it home. It's about 50 years too soon but we're glad you made it. RIP, Vilay. I only hope that when I leave this world I end up in the same place you are so I can get just one more of those Vilay hugs. Until then, I guess all we can say is goodbye for now. We love you buddy.
Kathy Burrows
02/23/2026
I am so very sorry for your loss. Vilay's friendly smile and good cheer will be missed by us all at Bankers Trust.
Sam Evans
02/23/2026
I worked with Vilay when he first started here at Banker Trust. He always had a great attitude and was fun to work with. I will miss the golfing and Bowling we would do as a group. He and I had a thing in common....we loved food! He taught me so much about his Culture and I will always cherish that. He shared the same Birthday as my wife.( So now I will have to remember hers it on my own!) My deepest sympathy goes to all his family!
Eve Vanden Broek
02/23/2026
Vilay will be remembered in many ways by his Bankers Trust family. I so enjoyed his spunk and his eagerness to learn and help wherever he could. He had an infectious smile and was a friend to all. My sincere condolences to the Lovan family. Vilay left us all too soon. May you continue to feel his presence every day and keep him close to your heart.
Rest in peace, Vilay.
Amra Mrkonjic
02/23/2026
My time with Vilay was short, but nonetheless memorable. Thank you for always having a welcoming smile, and a rubber band to launch across the way. Things won't be the same without you around. Rest easy, and prayers for family and friends during this difficult time.
Kristel Payne
02/23/2026
I have worked with Vilay for many years, and will miss him. He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed by many.
Dustin Palmer
02/23/2026
I am so very sorry for your loss. I worked at the bank with Vilay. I didn't work directly with him, but I had several interactions with him. He was always kind and respectful, hilarious, and people loved him. I know the Bankers Trust family at South and everywhere will miss him. Rest Easy sir and I hope they are blasting some Britney Spears for you.